Journal

The Secret Buzz: Exploring Remote Play and Shared Thrills

Exploring Remote Play and Shared Thrills in Semi-Public Spaces There is a special kind of electricity that comes from knowing something private is happening while the world around you continues as...

The Art of the Slow Build

Beckett sent me a text at 11:14 on a Wednesday morning. By the time the kids were in bed, I had been thinking about him for eight hours. This is what we mean by the slow build.

Desire Needs a Runway

Why spontaneous sex is a myth - and what to do instead. Here's the lie we all believed: that good sex should be spontaneous. That if you have to plan it, schedule it, or build toward it, s...