Journal

Vacation Voltage: How Travel Reignites Passion Between Partners

How Travel Reignites Passion Between Partners There is something magical about travel, and it is not just the destination. Whether it is a weekend getaway or a far-off adventure, leaving your ever...

The Arousal Gap: Navigating Different Desire Timelines in Marriage

The Arousal Gap Navigating Different Desire Timelines with Grace and Heat We have noticed it in our own marriage more times than we can count. One of us is ready with a single look across the r...

Desire Needs a Runway

Why spontaneous sex is a myth - and what to do instead. Here's the lie we all believed: that good sex should be spontaneous. That if you have to plan it, schedule it, or build toward it, s...

When One of You Wants More

The conversation no one teaches you to have. There's a moment in every long marriage where one person wants more than the other. More sex. More touch. More of whatever it was that used to ...