Journal

I Bought Something for Myself and It Changed Everything

A letter from Maren. I am going to tell you about a purchase I almost didn't make. It was a Tuesday afternoon. The kids were at school. I was sitting in the car in a parking lot scrolling my pho...

Beyond Solo Play: Integrating Sex Toys into Partnered Intimacy

Integrating Sex Toys into Partnered Intimacy We used to see toys as something for private moments. We now see them as another way we can play together. When we bring a toy into partnered intimacy,...

The Secret Buzz: Exploring Remote Play and Shared Thrills

Exploring Remote Play and Shared Thrills in Semi-Public Spaces There is a special kind of electricity that comes from knowing something private is happening while the world around you continues as...

Ring of Pleasure: A Couple's Guide to Using Cock Rings

A Couple's Guide to Using Cock Rings for Enhanced Sensation We used to think cock rings were something only for him. We now see them as a shared tool that can change the entire experience for both...

More Than Slick: Understanding Lubricants and Playful Ways to Use Them Together

Understanding Lubricants and Playful Ways to Use Them Together We used to think of lubricant as something you reach for only when things feel dry. We now see it as a quiet partner in pleasure. Som...

Why Intimacy Products Aren't Just for Her: Reclaiming Play for Couples

Reclaiming Play for Couples We used to think intimacy products were mostly for one person. That changed the moment we started exploring them together. The truth is that toys, tools, and enhancemen...